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5 Types of Mom Friends You Need In Your Life

When it comes to moms, much like bodies, no two are the same. And when it comes to not just surviving, but thriving in motherhood, mamas need other mamas.

We all have that friend who lifts us up when we're feeling down, the one that will bring us chocolate when we're PMSing, or the one who is always down for an adventure to get us out of the house—even if it's just a trip to Target.

The beautiful chaos of motherhood is so.much.more. enjoyable with a crew of diverse mom friends who can balance each other out. Whether you're the dependable one, the experienced one, or the adventurous one... one thing is certain: we all have value.

With that, here are 5 types of specific mom friends everyone needs in their lives:

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1. The Adventurer

This type of mama gets you out of the house, into nature, and gets you and your kids out of their bubble. Whether she’s down for a co-trip to Target with 4 toddlers in tow (when that would be someone else’s nightmare), your wing-woman on a hike or road trip (even if it means kids are screaming in the car or throwing things at one another), or has your local town’s calendar of events uploaded into her Gmail calendar, ready for library story-time, kid’s concerts, park celebrations, or farmer's markets happening near you... this mom is good for your social life, your Instagram feed, and your soul.

2. The Sage

This type of mom feels like home to you (or a therapist). She can openly and honestly relate to raw feelings and any hardships you may be going through or may face in the future; she ALWAYS knows just what to say to make you feel better, giving you a pep-talk and getting a pep back into your step. This mama sympathizes with you when other people may feel like you’re overreacting, acting like a helicopter parent, or just need to “get over it.” She is kind, she is a good listener, and she most likely can relate to what you’re going through. She gets you, and just “gets it.” She is always there, showing up (in person or over a call/text) when you need TLC, support, or a shoulder to cry on.

3. The Homemaker

This type of mom makes you feel safe, secure, and feels like family. She is always there when you need a favor, never making you feel guilty about asking for help. In fact, it’s the opposite, because she knows what you need before you ask, and just does it. Have to stay late for a work meeting and can’t make it to school or day-care before it closes? She’s on it, picking up your kids as if they’re her own. And, she takes it one step further - after that late work meeting followed by siting in traffic for 30 minutes, she’s already fed your kids and helped them with their homework before you even get there. She knows when you need a date-night, offering to babysit, or knows when you’ve experienced heartbreak or loss or a long week of work, and Venmo's you money to buy a Starbucks, drops flowers off on your porch, or she brings you a homemade meal. She shows up. She calls instead of texts. She sits with you on your couch when you need a good cry, or comes over just to help with laundry and empty your dishwasher. She is a gem, and you need to remember to thank her, always.

4. The Enthusiast

This type of mom is your go-to when you had a hard day at work, have something to celebrate, or need a break and want to take a mom-cation. She loves to celebrate and knows the best balloon artists, DJs, and party-room rentals. She knows the latest spot to go line-dancing, when to find cheap flights to get out of town, and where has the best ice cream flavors. She is a great mom, but knows how to let loose, how to lift your spirits (literally), and she'll probably make your stomach hurt from laughing so much.

5. The Helper

This type of mama always has your back... whether it's 2 am and you’re freaking out about a fever or a rash, you're unsure if you'll make it to school pick-up on time and need a backup, or need someone to stick up for you at the PTA meeting. She is your sense of calm in this crazy, unpredictable world. She has a heart of gold and everyone knows she's the one you can count on. She is a God-send, an angel, and deserves 21398 thank you's.

Do you have these types of mothers in your friend community? Which one are you, Mama?

If you're looking for a community of diverse mamas to add to your mom circle (or to get it started!), find a FIT4MOM location near you.

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